3 years-ish before, I found men on the internet, we’re going to phone him “D”, on Myspace. It was relatively innocent, and he had been fairly HOT. By pretty, after all SO.CUTE. It was not some huge romance, I became in between connections but we contributed music tastes, a dry (ahem devastatingly amusing) love of life and then we both lived in L.A. Emails slowly advanced to texting to arbitrary telephone calls. Again, not a huge love affair, but absolutely some thing with possible.
He would ask me to hang out, and then terminate. This pattern would duplicate, repeat, recurring. I would take his neighbor hood and get him to generally meet for coffee/lunch but he always had plans. What a coincidence, right? I never truly cared as well much-I started a brand new connection and merely registered “D” out as a text/email friend in which he appeared happy to only disappear naturally as my personal connection with my today date progressed.
Now, we’re friends on myspace and Twitter, and then he drunk texts me personally ALL.THE.TIME. The guy emails me personally songs he believes I’ll like (i usually like it) in which he calls myself when every couple weeks. Gathering through the social media stalking I done, he is singleâ¦goes out always, doesn’t have a girlfriend or ten kidsâ¦and there is explanation we’ven’t hung down. If I quit addressing him, I have “in which will you be? We neglect you!” texts, etc. He’s lent an online hand during crisis in my own life, sends me personally small (low creepy) provides for my personal birthday and Christmas and is apparently a good guyâ¦but its so hard to share with, since he won’t come out from behind the computer.
It’s so confusing, because although i will be very happy within my connection, We think about “D” a friend. But are we?
I have that maybe the guy just isn’t that enthusiastic about meeting me personally in person, and that I’m ok with that. To be truthful, I’m not into him romantically in almost any way-I mean, a man who takes 3 years attain something accomplished is not attractive! If he or she isn’t interested, or wasn’t interested 3 years agoâ¦why does he keep calling/texting/tweeting/emailing/facebooking?
1. he is shy/intimidated-this has been their reason before but I am not sure I buy it.
2. He is perhaps not who the guy appears to be on the web. My personal just concern with this usually his Twitter is apparently filled up with “real” life friends, and he usually has brand new pictures-I know where he operates, in which he lives-whoa I appear to be a creep. HOWEVER-we’ve all heard the Catfish tale, correct? Never can be as well careful! But i am talking about, his mother plainly comments on his articles, and that I simply cannot think about she’sn’t real!
3. the guy loves having an attractive lady provide him interest but he does not have to rev up on the dish and actually “DO” everything. BINGO.
4. He’s merely a weirdo.
I’m bending towards 3, and wanting it isn’t 4. But at this stage, it’s just more attraction than something else-who is actually my personal mysterious buddy “D”? Hey D, you are probably reading thisâ¦since you stick to me on Twitter and all!
Exactly what do you guys think? Precisely why can you spend plenty in some body you won’t ever intend to satisfy? Help a lady out. ????